Increasing Sexual Tension

Yesterday I put forward the idea that sexual tension leads to hot sex. If this is the case, how can we increase the amount of sexual tension in our marriage without damaging the relationship itself? Well, there are in fact several ways, and the most useful are as follows:
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Sexual Tension

Sexual tension plays a big role in the ability to enjoy hot sex over a lifetime with your spouse. My very simple equation is Quantity of Tension = Temperature of Sex. Bear with me and I’ll explain what I mean.
When a couple get together for the first time, there’s a lot of sexual tension because [...]

Talking Dirty for Better Sex

Talking dirty is one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to better sex that I know of, but what exactly is it, why does it work and how can we make it more effective. Those are the questions I want to explore here.
Dirty talk can best be defined as “sexually provocative language”. In other [...]

Porn… again.

Yesterday I talked about whether watching porn was a good or bad thing in a marriage, and my conclusion was that it depends on the people in the marriage. If both partners are happy to watch porn and derive pleasure and benefit from it then there’s no reason not to as far as I can [...]

Porn to be Wild?

Is pornography an aid or an obstacle as far as having hot married sex is concerned? This is a question that many people ask, but the short answer is that there is no short answer. Whether porn enhances a relationship or otherwise depends on the individuals involved in the marriage and what their perceptions of [...]

Hot Married Sex

Hot Married Sex is a blog about getting the most out of your sex life with your spouse. Whether you have been married for two years or twenty, making hotter sex a priority has a number of benefits. For example, couples who have hot sex on a regular basis tend to be more intimate in [...]